Should I?

**this entry was posted on Wednesday, April 22nd**

Ada orang tu cakap kan.. nak tengok movie ni sama-sama. Paging for Wani, paging for Wani! Bilanya Wani oi? Kita tengok DVD berjemaah je la jawabnya

**this part has been added on Sunday, May 24**

We (me, Wani, Ikim, Along) were supposed to watch this movie together last month, but unfortunately at the very last minute, we canceled our plan as Wani and Along couldn't make it. Poor thing, baru berangan nak beremosi sama-sama ;p kan Ikim? Anyway.. so, finally last night I watched He's Just Not That Into You (DVD.. as predicted earlier, LOL) and now I got the 'message', why on earth did everyone keeps asking me to watch this movie. Girls, if you still haven't watch this movie yet, I think you should seh. Just FYI, it's not a sappy lovey dovey movie or whatsoever, ia bukan movie yang akan buat anda menangis teresak-esak ye. It's worth a watch, seriously. There're lots of great lessons to be learnt from it. After you watch this, I bet you'll be like "OMG!! THAT IS SOOOO TRUE!!" and "Oooooooh OK, got it!" and "Duhh! How come I didn't noticed that before?", sambil ketuk kepala sendiri. Sila tonton OK? Anyway girls, here some catchy lines taken from the movie.

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up:
if a guy punches you, he likes you,
never try to trim your own bangs,
and someday you will meet a wonderful guy
and get your very own happy ending.

Every movie we see,
every story we're told.. implores us to wait for it.
The third act twist:
the unexpected declaration of love,
the exception to the rule.

But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending
We dont learn how to read the signs:
how to tell the ones who want us, from the ones who dont
the ones who will stay, from the ones who will leave.

And maybe this happy ending doesn't include a wonderful guy.
Maybe it's.. YOU, on your own..
picking up the pieces and starting over,
freeing yourself up for something better in the future.
Maybe the happy ending is just.. MOVING ON.

Or maybe the happy ending is this:
Knowing that..
through all the unreturned phone calls and broken hearts
through all the blunders and misread signals
through all of the pain and embarrassment;
you never, ever gave up hope.