Sepetang bersama Kak Suerieram

Tempat kejadian:
Ladies Room, 7th floor

Situasi:
Baru selesai mengambil wudhu' untuk solat Zohor, and then suddenly one of my colleague entered the 'room'..

Megha: Ahaa.. this is first time I saw you without scarf
Suerie: *tergelak*
Megha: Do you need to wear this when you're at home?
Suerie: No, I don't. I'll wear them only when I go out.

Megha: So, if you're at home, you will only take off the scarf when you're in your room huh?
Suerie: No la, I don't need to wear a scarf when I'm at home as there're only my parent and my siblings around.. as long as everybody that in the house is my muhrim then it's ok for me not to wear any. Err muhrim means, erm OK, I'll just put it this way. Muhrim are those who I can't get married to, like my dad, my brothers, my uncles aka my parent's siblings, my nephews, my grandfather and etc. So, when I'm at home, and if there is any non-muhrim around, then I need to wear. Non-muhrim is the other way round, anyone that I can get married to, such as if from relatives side like my cousins, my uncles that aren't my parent's siblings.. and then, my friends, my neighbours, strangers and so forth. Do you get it?

Megha: Owh ok, I got it. But in India, we can't get married to our cousin, only allow for 3rd degree relation, cousin's cousin but not the first cousin. Like my mom's or dad's brother/sister kids cannot.

Suerie: Owh, really? Very different from here :)

Tetiba dah jadi sesi free lecture hukum hakam di toilet, tak pasal-pasal. Sesungguhnya, aku tak pandai nak bagi explanation kat orang. Atleast, relevan la jugak explanation aku kan.. *wink*

found on: http://www.thehistorychannel.co.uk

The close relatives of the opposite sex, detailed by the Quran, whom a Muslim may not marry. A Muslim may not mix freely with any member of the opposite sex outside these prohibited degrees.

Phew!! Betul pun contoh aku bagi.. sipi *sengih* and obviously aku bukan pengikut Ayah Pin, LOL!